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{1.4a3c1} provisional life
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a provisional life is lived in anticipation of something better, new, or “more real”.
everything you don’t like about your life will improve just as soon as something else changes – but change never comes, because the psychic protection of the provisional life is in the fantasy of something better without “the hard work and hard choices inseparable from personal change in the real world”.