our experience with {1.4a3a} mother and father archetypes, and more concrete expectations from others, form a script, set of rules, guidelines, and ideals that feel like our conditions to receive love.
these things have nothing to do with who we actually are, but are projections from others; our ego must be strong enough to differentiate between these scripts and who we truly are.
otherwise, we spend our lives repressing our selves to be accepted and don’t develop the capacity to make our own judgments.
the first challenge of our lives is to psychologically emancipate ourselves from our caregivers so we do not continue living under their shadows and projections.